Saturday, June 27, 2009

Should've known you'd bring me heartache, almost lovers always do.

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and your world tilted on its axis, the stars performed a ballet,
and you forgot how to breathe for a few minutes.

no one falls in love by choice, it is by chance
& no one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice.

banana.

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.

181. EVERYONE IS SO IN LOVE WITH BEING IN LOVE, THEY FORGET ABOUT WHO THEY'RE ACTUALLY "FALLING IN LOVE WITH." STOP FORCING YOURSELF TO FALL IN LOVE WITH PEOPLE YOU BARELY KNOW. IF THE RIGHT PERSON COMES ALONG YOU WON'T HAVE TO TRY, EVERYTHING WILL JUST FALL INTO PLACE. AND IT'S OK TO BE A LITTLE BIT LONELY FOR NOW, IT'LL ALL BE WORTH IT IN THE END. Got Wisdom?

1.infatuation - a foolish and usually extravagant passion or love or admiration
2.infatuation - temporary love of an adolescent
" Infatuation is instant desire, one set of glands calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you, to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not separate you. You want him near. But near or far, you know he is yours and you can wait.

Infatuation says, “We must get married right away. I can’t risk losing him.”

Love says, “Be patient. He is yours. Plan your future with confidence.”

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are in one another’s company you are hoping it will end in intimacy.

Love is the maturation of friendship. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When he’s away, you wonder if he’s cheating. Sometimes you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure, and unthreatened. He feels your trust and it makes him even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you’ll regret later, but love never will.

Love lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. "

I think its about time that people know the difference
between Love and Infatuation :)
Saves a lot of heartbreak for the world.

Friday, June 5, 2009

We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospection.

fact: you, sitting in front of your computer, reading this right now, you are beautiful. work uniform or pajamas, unbrushed hair or perfect curls, all that. you are beautiful.